
It all started with a cup of coffee after working
with each other at General Electric for 15 years.
Stanley Weston has been deaf since about 18 months
of age, due to a very high fever. He is originally from Indianapolis and
attended the Indiana School for the Deaf.
Jackie Weston, originally from Kentucky, while
working at General Electric, and being recently widowed was searching
for something to expand her life further. She asked if Stanley would
teach her sign language, as he often held classes at G.E. to teach
people to sign. He agreed and little did they both know that is where
the story and incredible journey of this unlikely marriage and ministry
begins.
Since Jackie knew no sign language, their first
communications were done by writing notes, she invited him to come to
church at McCormick’s Creek United Pentecostal Church, where there were
no interpreters at the time.
Then they went out for a cup of coffee and
continued to write notes, as her signing was very limited to the ABC's
and spelling everything out. She says, “a few days later, he came over
and laid about 20 books on the table and she told him, “I can't do
this”. Stanley told her, “you just need to trust God and He will anoint
your hands.”
Many people think the Weston's have been married
for years, but they only celebrated their fifth wedding anniversary in
December [2005]. Jackie states that, “I know God has called me to do
this or I would have never been able to learn so fast.” Stanley said,
“I am very proud of her and my daughters and grand kids who have all
learned to sign.” They communicate a lot. He has two daughters and she
has two daughters and one son and a step-daughter from her late
husband that she loves as her own, they have 19 grandchildren and two
great-grandchildren between them. Jackie's children have all accepted
Stanley with open arms and learned to sign to be able to communicate
with him. One grandson, Noah who lives above them learned to sign to his
“Papaw” before he could speak.
The Weston’s both took an early retirement due to
health reasons, and that has given them more time to devote to their
ministry, “Silent Praise”.
Their pastor R. L. Robertson says, Jackie and
Stanley have been members of McCormick’s Creek Church for several years.
During that time they have worked together to teach sign language and
foster understanding between the hearing and the deaf and hearing
impaired. They frequently travel to other churches to teach or sign at
their services or special meetings.
Many times they have traveled to neighboring states
to encourage and help others to get their sign language ministry off the
ground. Their ministry is God called and they have answered that call.
Not only are they a blessing to our church and an asset to my ministry,
simply put they are an inspiration to others.
Denominations are not a factor for the Weston's,
God called them to do this for all people and thus they are open to
teaching sign for many different churches so the deaf population can
learn the Bible and the truth.
The couple has done basic sign language classes,
interpretation for seminars, home Bible studies, visitations and
outreach fellowship for the deaf and hearing impaired.
Stanley said, “I always wanted a hearing and deaf
ministry, and now I am a deaf minister/teacher, it makes me feel good,
it is awesome. I was very disappointed with my life before we were
married, and was very bitter, but people prayed and I came into church
in April of 2000.” Again he says, “It is awesome!”
In the United States alone there are more than 28
million deaf or hard of hearing people that can hear so little that they
have to use sign.
Jackie says, “in a way we are missionaries, but we
don’t have to leave the U.S., there is a whole world of people that are
untouched right here.” With the Indianapolis School for the Deaf, there
are thousands of deaf in the city, but it is hard to pinpoint where they
all are, to go and reach them.
The Weston's currently are teaching at their own
church, McCormick's Creek Church, Whitehall Pentecostal Church and
Mitchell Wesleyan, they also conduct some classes out of their home.
Stanley's daughter who attends Lighthouse Tabernacle in Gosport has
recently started a sign language class in her church.
Also, Jackie's youngest daughter has started
signing music and soon will interpret at the Mitchell Weslyna church.
But in the surrounding area McCormick's Creek Church is currently the
only church with an active deaf ministry and an interpreter at all the
services to her knowledge. Jackie said, “what I really want to see is an
interpreter in every church.”
Outreach director for their church Aleatha Langley
stated , “Jackie and Stanley have had a real commitment to their
ministry for the deaf.
Especially by teaching the hearing how to
communicate in sign language. They have truly built a bridge between the
hearing and non-hearing worlds. When they first met, Jackie did not
know any sign language. Motivated by her love for her husband and those
who are deaf she went from knowing no sign language to being fluent in
it! Together they are now teaching classes to doing conferences and she
interprets church services. Their commitment has made an impact on many
lives. They are motivated by love and that love is what continues to
motivate their work and ministry today. Because of their hard work this
endeavor has grown and will continue to blossom under their care.”
Isaiah 29:18 is a scripture the Weston's use often
and it says,” And in that day shall the deaf hear the words of the
book...” They use that in the context of signing for the deaf .....let's
them see the words of Bible.
See what can happen when you simply ask someone to
have a cup of coffee with you!
Rachell D. Robertson
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